IT IS getting to the point now, that when my 9-year-old grandson comes to visit, he sometimes asks to go for a walk near to the pond, field and woods. If he doesn't ask and is dressed for walks, I suggest we go for a walk and he agrees.
I don't know who enjoys our time together more, him or me. He looks forward to walking a deer trail or in the woods. Davon is always asking question and even points out a deer track or woodchuck hole to me.
I am a regular visitor to my piece of nature in the suburbs, so I get to see a lot of things that nature has to offer. I am blessed with families of deer, wild turkeys, rabbits, wildflowers, butterflies, dragonflies and much more. I visit with birds that won't come to my suburban yard. I also see some of nature's more real or cruel offerings.
A few weeks ago, on a sandy bank between the pond and fields, I noticed some fresh sand. Turtles have been here I say to myself. Wouldn't you know it. The very next day, A four-legged creature had raided both nests and had a nice midnight snack. By the claw marks left in the sand, I am thinking the culprit was the resident Badger.
The Naturalist in me paused for a moment and figured some critter enjoyed a protein rich snack, and figured it was all part of nature's check and balance system. Too many turtles wouldn't be good for pond life.
I digress. The following day, our daughter stopped by with Davon and our 9-month-old grandson.
I had to show Sparkie (Davon) the messed up turtle nests. As we were slowly walking near the pond, he began to ask a few questions and I began to explain to him how nature can be cruel.
We spotted the Great Blue Heron wading and spearing for fish (it missed). "See Sparkie" I say, "the heron is fishing." We stop for a few minutes and watch the large bird spear and miss several times. "The heron also eats frogs, small snakes and other things it can spear. The Snapping Turtles in the pond eat fish, frogs, baby ducks and in return baby turtles are eaten by other turtles and maybe the heron over there. It is all part of nature's balance so one species doesn't overpopulate and may suffer by starving to death. It's all part of God's plans."
A half grown rabbit scurries into the brush and a pair of American Robins let us know we are too close for their comfort.
"Now I want to show you something."
We followed a deer path to where the turtle mess lays. At first he saw eggshells. "Grandpa, where are the baby birds?" he said to me.
"No birds this time Bud. This is what's left from a couple of Snapping Turtle nests, that another animal like a Raccoon or Badger found and ate what was in the eggs." I explained to him how the turtle eggs feed another animal and if all the turtle eggs hatched and made it to water there would be too many turtles for the pond. "Sometimes Nature can be cruel but it's all part of life."
"See how rubbery the shells are."
I explained to him how nature seems to be cruel, but things like this happen all the time in the animal kingdom and it happens for a reason. Explaining to a young boy that not all baby bunnies or little deer live to see tomorrow or their birthday can be a challenge. I don't know if my grandson gets the picture or his youthful mind wonders to other subjects, but there were several questions and answers that day and we managed to walk a bit longer along a deer trail.
He spotted another woodchuck hole. "Grandpa, did the woodchuck get the eggs?" he asked.
With a smile and keeping it simple, I tried to explain the difference between plant eating animals, meat eating animals and animals that feed on both.
It is wonderful when your teaching a wide-eyed boy that takes it all in. Davon is getting better at spotting the little things, too. The time we spend on walks and little field trips is priceless for me. Looking back to my youth and my memories, I have to believe they will be priceless for Davon as well.
A future Naturalist...only time will tell. For now I have my grandson who I can share a bit of nature with and enjoy some quality time together. Can life with a child get much better than that?
Ronald F. Patterson
WindStar National Master Naturalist
Michigan Certified Nurseryman
www.gardening-for-wildlife.com
Kentwood, MI